By CTK Veritas
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October 28, 2025
There’s a question underneath every decision you make, every desire you chase, every impulse you justify: What do you love most? Not, “What do you believe?” Not, “What do you agree with theologically?” Not even, “Do you go to church?” What do you love most? The apostle John says the answer to that question will explain not only your behavior, but your whole spiritual condition. This is what 1 John 2:12–17 is about. John is going to show us that the Christian life is not just about what you know, and it’s not just about what you do. It’s about what — and who — you love first. That’s why this sermon is called Reordered Loves . Where We’ve Been So Far in 1 John Quick recap of where John has taken us so far: Week 1: The gospel is not just a message. The gospel is a Person — Jesus Christ. Truth is not just an idea; truth is Someone you can know. Week 2: If we really know that Jesus, we don’t hide behind spiritual filters. We can come to God honestly, because “we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous” (1 John 2:1). His blood cleanses us. Week 3 (last week): Once we’ve stepped into that light, something changes. We don’t just say “I know Him,” we begin to obey Him. Obedience is not how we earn salvation — it’s the evidence that we truly belong to Jesus. Today in 1 John 2:12–17, John goes deeper. If God has forgiven us… if we are walking in the light… if we’re learning obedience… Then what happens to our loves? Because if Christ is in you, your loves will get rearranged. Step One: Remember Who You Are (1 John 2:12–14) John pauses his warnings for a moment. He slows down. His tone becomes pastoral, almost fatherly. “I am writing to you, little children, because your sins are forgiven for his name’s sake. I am writing to you, fathers, because you know him who is from the beginning. I am writing to you, young men, because you have overcome the evil one. I write to you, children, because you know the Father. I write to you, fathers, because you know him who is from the beginning. I write to you, young men, because you are strong, and the word of God abides in you, and you have overcome the evil one.” (1 John 2:12–14) At first glance it sounds like he’s talking to different age groups — “children,” “young men,” “fathers.” That’s how these verses get used sometimes at youth conferences. But most theologians agree: John isn’t dividing the room by birth certificate. He’s embracing the whole church . “Little children”: that’s all of us in Christ — tender, dependent, adopted. “Young men”: that’s all believers — strong in the Word, fighting spiritual battle. “Fathers”: that’s all believers — those who truly know the Eternal One. In other words: Christian, this is who you are. Let’s pull out what John says is already true of you in Christ: 1. “Your sins are forgiven for His name’s sake.” Not “will be forgiven if you behave.” Not “might be forgiven if you prove you’re serious.” Are forgiven. In Greek this is perfect tense — an action completed in the past with ongoing results. Jesus’ cross was 2,000 years ago, and His forgiveness is still active right now. 2. “You know Him who is from the beginning.” You don’t just know facts about God. You know the Eternal Son — “Him who is from the beginning.” You are in relationship with the Ancient, uncreated Christ. 3. “You have overcome the evil one.” Not “you’re trying really hard.” “You have overcome.” That victory is not because you’re impressive. It’s because your Savior is. 4. “You are strong.” Even if you don’t feel strong. Even if yesterday didn’t look strong. You are strong in Christ because — and John says this next — 5. “The word of God abides in you.” God’s Word lives in you. It’s not just in your notes. It’s in you. John is saying: Before I tell you what not to love, before I warn you about the world, before I say, “Don’t go there,” you need to know who you already are. You are forgiven. You are loved. You are known. You are strong in Him. You are not property of darkness anymore. This matters, because if you forget who you are, you will start chasing what you’re not meant to love. Step Two: Reorder Your Loves (1 John 2:15) Now John turns the corner and says something that sounds harsh — unless you’ve heard what he just said before it. “Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.” (1 John 2:15) That lands heavy. But hear it in sequence: You’re forgiven. You know God. You’re strong. You have overcome. Therefore… don’t love the world. He’s not saying, “Behave so God will love you.” He’s saying, “God loves you — so don’t hand your heart to His rivals.” So what does John mean by “the world”? He does not mean sunsets, mountains, music, good food, snow, oceans, craft, poetry, art, design. God made those. Genesis calls that good. When John says “the world,” he’s talking about the system — the invisible architecture of culture that takes good things and bends them into idols. The world: Takes beauty and turns it into vanity. Takes love and turns it into lust. Takes work and turns it into identity. Takes blessing and turns it into entitlement. Takes gifts and replaces the Giver. The world is the voice that says, “You can have joy without God. You can build a name without God. You can define yourself without God.” John says you can’t love that and love the Father. Those loves are competitive. And only one can sit in first place. This is where Augustine, 4th-century bishop of North Africa, helps us. Augustine said sin isn’t only “doing bad things.” Sin begins as disordered love — loving lower things as if they were the highest thing. He wrote: “A just and holy life requires one to be capable of an objective and impartial evaluation of things — to love things in the right order: so that you do not love what is not to be loved, or fail to love what is to be loved, or have a greater love for what should be loved less.” In other words: Your heart is going to love. The question is not if you love. The question is what order you love in. If God is not your first love, something else will be. And whatever sits in that first slot becomes your master. That’s why John says, lovingly but directly: “Do not love the world.” If you do, “the love of the Father is not in you.” Not because God is joyless. But because God loves you too much to watch you marry an illusion. Step Three: Know What You’re Fighting (1 John 2:16) John now pulls back the curtain and names the competing loves directly: “For all that is in the world — the desires of the flesh, the desires of the eyes, and the pride of life — is not from the Father but is from the world.” (1 John 2:16) This is brutally honest. John says the world runs on three engines: 1. “The desires of the flesh” The pull toward comfort, pleasure, indulgence. “I deserve this. I need this. My feelings rule me.” This is the craving to feel good at any cost. 2. “The desires of the eyes” The endless hunger for more. More money. More status. More control. More attention. It’s never enough. You hit one goal, and the goalposts move. Seven championships? You need eight. One house renovation? Now you need the next upgrade, and the upgrade after that. There’s a story from a couple who were renovating their house. At first, it was exciting — new paint, new floors, new furniture. But slowly, they stopped going to church. Stopped showing up for family. Stopped resting. Stopped worshiping. All their time, money, thought, energy went into “the project.” One night the husband said to his wife, “We used to own the house. Now it’s like the house owns us.” That’s “the desires of the eyes.” The slow creep of “just a little more.” 3. “The pride of life” The obsession to be seen. To be admired. To be applauded. “Respect me. Notice me. Approve me.” And don’t think pride disappears in religious spaces. It’s in business, athletics, Instagram — and yes, it’s in seminaries. Pastors can chase applause just like CEOs can. John is saying: These three things — pleasure without obedience, possession without gratitude, identity without humility — are not from the Father . They’re part of the system that tries to convince you: “You don’t need to love God first. You can love you first.” But that system is lying to you. Step Four: Stay With What Lasts (1 John 2:17) Here’s the final contrast, and it’s stunning: “And the world is passing away along with its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever.” (1 John 2:17) John is saying: The system that promises you everything? It’s temporary. The cravings you think are irresistible? They’re expiring. The approval you’re chasing? It will evaporate. But the will of God — loving God first, obeying His Son, walking in His light — that remains forever . So this is not “try harder.” This is “build on what won’t burn.” Remember who you are. Reject what competes. Remain in what lasts. That’s the shape of reordered love. Let’s Get Uncomfortably Honest for a Moment If you belong to Christ: You are forgiven. You are held. You are strong in His strength. The Word abides in you. You have overcome the evil one — not because you’re impressive, but because your Savior is. So here’s the question: Why would you hand your heart back to a world Jesus died to free you from? And if you feel like, “Honestly… I think I still love the world,” then hear this with love: It’s time to reorder your loves. Not by sheer willpower. Not by guilt. Not by fake spirituality. But by returning God to the top of the list. If He is not first, everything else will rot you from the inside out — even the good things. Family, career, romance, success, reputation, “the grind,” your own self-story… none of those can carry the weight of being your god. None of them can save you. None of them can keep you. Only Christ can. The Call Is Not: “Be Stronger.” The Call Is: “Remember Whose You Are.” John is not shaming the church. He’s pastoring them. He’s saying: You are already forgiven in Christ. You already know the Father. You already have victory in Him. You already have the Word. So don’t trade that for a world that’s passing away. Stay where love lasts. “Whoever does the will of God abides forever.” That’s not a threat. That’s an invitation. Read This Over Yourself Let’s take John’s words and aim them directly at the church — at us: I am writing to you, Church, because your sins are forgiven for His name’s sake. I am writing to you, Church, because you know Him who is from the beginning. I am writing to you, Church, because you have overcome the evil one. I am writing to you, Church, because you know the Father. I am writing to you, Church, because you are strong, and the Word of God abides in you, and you have overcome the evil one. That is your identity in Christ. Now live like it. Not to earn it. Because it’s already true.